Stop Dating Girls Under the Age of 25
By: Tonny Otieno
Posted on Wednesday, March 24, 2021
Dating younger girls is okay but avoid courting girls under the age of 25. Speaking on Switch TV Kenya’s Full Circle with Mwikali, renowned psychologist and life coach Benjamin Zulu said that girls at this stage are in transition phases and are yet to know themselves. They are generally complicated and still have more to learn about life before getting involved in a serious relationship.
Dating is a sensitive issue and the type of girl a man needs is the one who has worked on herself; learned, have a depth of insight, composed, have a sense of character, and has evolved herself.
Zulu added that paying your woman’s bills is out of question. As a man, generosity is part and parcel of a successful relationship especially when it comes to spending on your woman but this doesn’t imply being fully accountable for her bills. Of course, you can give out a helping aid if need be sometime, but generosity in this case implies giving her surprise gifts, or even paying for meals when you go out. Taking over her life completely will complicate the process.
He advises men to make sure that the lady they marry is mature enough. A woman who has not learnt how to manage her earnings and expenses is not ready for marriage.
“Don’t get a woman from her mother’s house, she has not seen life. You are going to continue the mothering”. Zulu said.
According to Zulu, no successful and lasting relationship can be established based on deceit. Men are advised to always come clean about their backgrounds, previous relationships, and generally be outright. Trust is the key thing in every relationship. Be transparent regardless of how she would take it. Spilling the beans would set you free rather than be enslaved in your own silence.
Watch the video below for the full show
