It hurts being single, don’t be fooled – Akothee bewails

By: Sophie Opondo

Posted on Thursday, January 16, 2020


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Akothee and her manager Nelly Oaks

To some the year just began, to others Valentines’ day is just weeks away. The Boss Lady always keeps it real and this time she decided to open up about matters of the heart. The singer may seem alpha female but deep down she is like any other girl and wished the fairy tale life of the white picket fence.

The self-proclaimed president of single mothers revealed that she doesn’t enjoy being single. At times she wishes she had a man to pamper her. There are some days when loneliness consumes her.

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Akothee in one of her videos

Every woman needs a man who can take care of the small girl in her, it doesn’t matter how rich, powerful a woman is. A woman is still a woman and should be taken care of with love and care, women are very sensitive creatures. They harbor a lot in their hearts. They give their all in a relationship; they invest whatever it takes to keep their man well. There is very limited space left for toxic relationships, take care of your woman if you have one. There are plenty of women/girls, but not every woman is meant for you. That girl, that one girl, is your girl, love her cherish her, remind her, how much you care and love her, remind her that she is beautiful and that you adore her.

Akothee chose this occasion to remind men the old adage that says:

A happy woman, a happy home.

Hell hath no fury like a scorned woman. She will cause havoc unknown and consequently the whole family suffers. It’s only a woman in her right mind that can make a house a home. 

You will receive healing in your relationship; most women are rebellious because they feel some kind of rejection. This makes them build a wall so as to protect the small girl in them. Be careful a woman can build and can destroy. Don’t take advantage of a quiet woman, still waters run deep.

The singer concluded by saying that single mothers/women just console themselves with titles such as #Teamsingle. She admits it’s nothing but a stunt, reality is she, just like all other women wished she had a man to call her own.