HOW TO CREATE A TRUE SISTAHOOD WITH OUR FRIENDS

Posted on Monday, November 15, 2021

Author: Aska Makori

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If you want to have a true friend, be a true friend

There are few things in the world that are as BOMB as seeing a solid sistahood of girls.

On the journey to being true to ourselves, we’re going to need good friends. And even if we could do it on our own, why would you want to? Finding our SKY with the squad is hella fun!

Skiza, we know that sometimes, girl friendships are complicated and it might seem easier to keep to yourself, but imagine it doesn’t have to be that way. None of us has to stragoo alone. Healthy friendships with fellow SKY girls are possible, and they are totally worth giving a shot!

So, we collected some great pieces of advice from fellow SKY girls on building a strong sistahood in order to live our best lives!

 


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Stand up for your sis!

  1. If you want to have a #true friend, be a #true friend

Just like you are true to yourself, you have to be true to your girls. How, you ask? Be there and listen. Saidiana in times of need too. You can show love by helping your sis with chores or school work, getting her her favourite icecream or even trying out a super fun challenge like the “Try not to laugh” challenge or the “What’s in the box?” challenge we just had on the SISTA show! Check it out here or you can catch the show on Switch TV right after chatspot!

 

  1. Be REAL and open

No lie, this one can be tricky, especially if you have been hurt before. But real sistahood can only exist when you are willing to take the risk and let a friend in. Open up and speak your truth to your sis.

 

3. Be happy for your SKY sis

 

Congratulate your girls and let them know you think they are doing great! We know this might be hard for some who are really competitive but try your best to remember that your only competition in life is yourself. Kuna room enough for all of us to win. So when your friend ana-do her thing, be a cheerleader for the girls in your squad! You can catch us celebrating our faves as they do their thing on the SISTA show YouTube channel (or on SWITCH TV, after chatspot), like when our host Claris cooked up a storm!

 

  1. Listen to what your sis has to say

 

We learn when we listen, so skiza your sistaz. Listen to their stories, experiences and opinions. Sometimes you will find that your thing is not the same as their thing. If this is the case, don’t feel pressure to change your thing. Just give your opinion with respect. Kila mtu anaweza be true to themselves in a strong sistahood.

 

  1. Stand up for your sis!

 

If you see your sis in trouble and being treated unfairly, don’t stay silent. Show up and speak up for them. Have each other’s backs!

 

  1. Let go of past grudges.

 Imagine, we’re humans, so kukosana will happen. Our advice is that when they do, have a talk, forgive and then LET. IT. GO.

Why be frenemies when you could be friends? Drama will only bring toxic vibes to the sistahood. Na maybe uko a little unsure vile you can heal after falling out with a friend. We gotchu sis. Check out this episode of the SISTA show where the SKY sistahood shared tips on how to get back to a good place with your friend. You can get more great advice on SISTA show which is on Switch TV right after Chatspot!

  1. Don’t spread gossip.

Gossip is super-toxic, babe. Hata kama you have proof that something is true, if you know it will put your sis in a difficult position keep it for yourself. You will be sparing your girl pain.

  1. Always bring positivity and good energy.

 As usual, we are team #GOODVIBESONLY. When it comes to the squad, laugh, express your joy and spread that good energy to your SKY sisters.

Little steps can get you a long way. Remember, we rise by lifting others.

SKY is a sistahood of teen girls na sisi huwa all about staying true to who we are and what we believe in. So when it comes to our pals, music tunalike, our style, or how we look – we make choices that are true to us.

We are where it’s @! You can find us on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and TikTok, or pick up a free copy of our fab magazine yenye iko available on our website.

WE ARE ALSO ON SWITCH TV! Catch SKY’s SISTA Show on Switch TV right after chatspot!

Wanna join the sistahood? Ni easy. Take the pledge on our website, skygirlske.com or on the SKY Girls KE Facebook or IG pages.

If you are a parent of a teen girl who is interested in the SKY Girl movement, learn more about SKY on https://skygirlske.com/parents or call/whatsapp us on 0799 759 759

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